Chakra 2: Sexual Chakra
From TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS *
SQUEEZE & TEASE LOVERS WANDS
I’ve been blessed to experience many lingams (penises), large and small, thick and thin.
I’ve learned how to adjust my yoni (vagina) through conscious thought and intention. I know how to clamp down or expand to feel and compensate for variations in penis size.
Anyone can do this at any time. It involves time, patience and tuning-in to yourself. You learn master your control over specific muscular loci within your yoni as you make love to yourself.
When you experiment loving yourself, you can learn how to love others.
Master your orgasm as you self-pleasure and reconnect to yourself. Open communication lines between you and God Source with your orgasm. You’re free to let go then when you orgasm because you know where you’re going, which is home. It’s no longer frightening.
Then you learn how to let go with another person. For many that “other person” is a lover, a Beloved, one with whom you feel safe. When you master orgasm, you can take lovers with you home to your spiritual Source. Your lovers awaken and remember their spiritual connection to the All. The experience of divine connection goes in unconsciously and gradually awakens the whole being over time in divine order so as to not totally blow their minds.
If my lover has a large head on his lingam, I’ve learned how to tighten my muscles around his tissue maximizing pleasure for both of us.
There were not any books or formal studies in how to do this. I managed to do this through my thought and intention to love and be loved, to experience pure joy and surrender to my orgasm.
When you surrender to orgasm, you let go. It’s like falling, or jumping off a cliff. Yes, it’s scary at first. You lose a part of yourself, in a sense. That’s why they call orgasms the “mini death.” But actually you’re merging yourself with your lover, just for a moment at first, and gradually, together, over time and with practice, you merge yourself with God-Source and all of creation.
When you’re one with God-Source, you remember who you really are. You feel your oneness. You know that your oneness with each other and the Universe is absolute truth. Yes, it can be frightening to lose yourself so completely in the apparent other. But once you allow yourself to merge with love, you actually find yourself learn how to truly love yourself completely.
I began my tantra path through self-pleasuring and before I even knew the word tantra existed. At a very young age I felt orgasmic. Perhaps I came in into this planet that way. Maybe I’ve been a dakini (sacred lover) in many past incarnations.
While I was able to feel lovely sensations when very young, I don’t think I had a full orgasm until much later, somewhere in my teens. But then again, what is an orgasm? Perhaps the energy I experienced was a first level orgasm and by the time my body grew and developed so it could fully respond to my touch, I was now in higher levels of orgasm. From early childhood through adolescence I ran energy up through the core of my being connecting to something greater than myself as often as I could find time to be alone with myself. I learned very young, was self-taught.
I think anyone can do this at any time. It just involves time, patience and tuning in to yourself, learning how to make love to yourself. And once you love yourself, you can truly learn how to love others. Once you reconnect to yourself and open the communication lines between you and God Source, you are free to let go when you orgasm because you know where you’re going, which is home. It’s no longer frightening. Then you learn how to let go with another. For most that other person is a lover, a Beloved, one with whom you feel safe.
If you master orgasm, you can take people with you home to Source. They awaken, remember. Maybe not consciously at first. But the lesson goes in unconsciously and gradually awakens the whole being over time in divine order so as to not totally blow the mind of the person experiencing the awakening process.
by Janet Kira Lessin, Professor of Tantric Studies, School of Tantra Adults only see https://wp.me/p1TVCy-5F
From TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS *
Be creative when you honor his lingam (penis). Vary your strokes. Encourage feedback.Ladies, men generally like to be touched harder than you do. Lubricate his shaft with lots of oil. Vary strokes, tickle, scratch, squeeze, pull. Remember his anus (rosebud); press gently on the outside. Maintain eye contact and remember to breathe.
SHAFT SHIATSU: squeeze up and down his lingam at various points while you pull his penis down with your other hand.
PALM THE CROWN: Hold his penis firmly in one hand while you massage its head with the palm of your other hand in a circular motion.
CORKSCREW: Pull the skin taut at base of his penis with one hand while you pull and twist the shaft in an upward, outward motion with your other hand.
PASS THE PENIS: Toss his lingam back and forth between your hands, side to side.
FRENULUM FUN: With one thumb on the frenulum, use your other hand to pull down at the base of his lingam and jewels (testicles).
HEAL DOWN: Rub the heal of your hand down his shaft, fingers pointing downward to the tickle his sack with your fingernails.
ROLL DOUGH: Use lots of oil and roll his penis between the palms of both your hands; alternate speed and pressure
RINGER: Place your fingers around his scrotum until his scrotal sack is tight.
ROCK THE CRADLE: Keep the heal of one of your hands on the underside of his shaft while you cradle the shart’s opposite side in the opposite direction. Stroke up and down in opposite directions.
DOWNWARD DOGGIE: Place his penis head toward his perineum. Stroke his lingum from base to head. Vary strokes and speed. Place other hand on his power chakra (two inches below naval).
In this easy-to-read, fully-illustrated manuel, you learn to teach lovers and seekers how to:
* Master advanced tantra techniques
* Open all energy vortexes (chakras) to each other
* Refine relations
* Encourage female ejaculation and master male ejaculatory control
* Find meaning and purpose in relationships and life
* Reprogram parent imprints that diminish sex and love * Get satisfaction and sustain sex
* Mutually make more in sexualloving
* Delve dreams and pastlives
* Worship women and gratify guys
Also by the Lessins:
* TANTRA for ALL CHAKRAS guides you through experiences that help you:
* Love each other more and better
* Open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other
* Share your diverse inner-voices
* Learn what hurts and scares your Inner Kids
* Discern when to lower your subself shields
* Share vulnerability and connect with each other
* Synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you
* Refine how you relate
* Heal each other’s hearts
* Encourage female ejaculation
* Master male ejaculatory control
THE LESSINS: HOLISTIC-LOVING GUIDES
SASHA ALEX LESSIN, PH.D. (U.C.L.A.) taught Sex Education in the University of Hawaii School of Medicine, Leeward Community College and the Professional School for Psychological Studies. He served as Director of Counseling at the Waikiki Drug Center and has counseled relationships, guided spiritual journeywork and taught tantra for over forty years.
JANET KIRA LESSIN, naturally tantric, joined Sasha as his co-teacher and presenter and together they developed, All-Chakra Tantra as Janet worked through her sexual abuse traumas and learned how to facilitate others’ reprogramming.
The LESSINS taught Tantra at Maui Community College, World Polyamory Association, World Tantra Association conferences, the School of Tantra on Maui and The Phoenix Goddess Temple.
They’ve appeared on numerous TV shows and on hundreds of radio shows and have written 10 books and counting.
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