From TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS* by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra & Janet Kira Lessin, CEO, Aquarian Radio
Tantra, sacred sexuality, the art of conscious loving, kama sutra, and chakras–what’s all this fuss about eye gazing, breathing together, aligning chakras and women having squirting orgasms anyway ? To someone who’s just learning about tantra, all the hoopola may seem confusing and an over-simplification of what actually is an ancient, high-spritual practice that’s older than the hills, dates back to ancient Sumer and the Anunnaki gods who settled the Earth. Tantra was the first spiritual practice and is older than all other religions and spiritual beliefs. Tantra’s involved, complicated, more than sex, involves clearing and activating all our chakras and healing at all levels.
We awaken our kundalini energy, become conscious and aware and develop an aware ego through our tantric exercises. Not a simple task when you realize most don’t even know about chakras and kundalini and are so unconscious they’re not even aware they’re unconscious. But that’s fine. That just means there’s a lot to learn and learning’s fun, especially if it involves sex.
Tantra, an ancient spiritual practice and high art form given us by the gods, helps us–their children–awaken, be conscious, feel oneness with each other, remember who we are and experience unity with all that is. Tantra’s spiritual psychology that clears chakras (energy centers in the body), heals ancient wounds and reprograms cultural conditioning that has distanced us from those we love.
Tantra involves yoga stretching to heal our bodies, connect our breath and postures, center and balance us. Tantra meditation triggers electromagnetic kundalini that surges orgasmically up our spines, connecting us to lovers and to the divine. Tantric practices simultaneously make heighten our sense of both individuality and loving oneness with our beloveds. Tantra mandates clear communication, kind relating and sensual mating that soars us in sweet sacred surrender from the depths of our soul to stratospheric heights where we lose ourselves in the beauty of love.
Tantra’s centering, the balance of yin/yang, male female, inner/outer, above/below, adult/child. When we center ourselves, we develop an Aware Ego and become conscious of prejudices and judgements towards others. We notice criticisms with which we punish ourselves. We tame our demons and learn how to take personal responsibility for our own baggage and not project it outward onto others in harmful ways.
Tantra’s feeling others as we feel ourselves taking others into consideration when making decisions. Tantra’s consensus reality, embracing group mind while honoring individuality and consciousness in each being, respecting and granting all free will and creative expression.
The tantric path is a spiritual discipline, where we practice bhakti yoga (divine service), to the apparent other, the beloved, our lover and personalized God or Goddess. They, in kind, lovingly are in service to us, devoted to our healing, well-being and personal growth. In this sacred service We discover giving and receiving are the same.
Tantra’s weaving, weaving all the levels of our awareness, called chakras, within us and between us and those we love. Chakras correlate with our body parts, loosely associated where ganglia join; at the bottom of our torso, genitals, belly, heart, throat, brain and neocortex.
Our first chakra relates to our perineum, our need to belong, feel safe, secure and healthy, grounded in our material and emotional existence.
The second chakra relates to our sexuality and reproductive organs, our need to feel sexual and sensual.
The third chakra’s our belly, the need to take what’s rightfully ours and empower ourselves.
The fourth chakra’s our heart which guides us to love, cherish, support, heal and encourage ourselves and our lover.
The fifth chakra’s the throat where we learn how to communicate clearly, kindly, authentically.
The sixth chakra’s the home of the brain: vision, intuition, intellect where we learn how to receive, share and expand visions for ourselves, each other, others we love, our community and world.
In the crown (7th) chakra tantric meditations invoke awareness of our unity with everyone and everything.
Tantra helps us rise to broader perspectives, yet stay aware of the wisdom of all our chakras. We encompass more than what we think we are and expand our awareness to more than our body. We expand our perspective to even more than awareness of us and our darling, more than the awareness we share with each other and with humans, with life itself, or even with the Earth. We feel our oneness with everyone and everything everywhere at all-times. We experience unity, the seamless web of consciousness linking the manifest universe. We merge with the latent–unformed but constantly arising reality of the metacosmic void, identify with divine play that can manifest all forms and appreciate endless diversity while knowing we’re one with it all, in love will all creation.
TANTRA, POLYAMORY & SWINGING
Janet Kira Lessin & Sasha Lessin, Ph.D. schooloftantra.com
Tantra–ancient practices for singles, couples and groups–teaches you to weave seven types of energy–energy centered in your chakras– your base, genitals, belly, heart, throat, mind and spirit within you and between you and your lovers. Tantric touching, breathing and meditating heals childhood, pastlife and societal wounds. With tantra, you transcend your separate self-sense without losing it, you feel your oneness with your lovers and the universe.
Polyamory–more than one lover–where they all know of each other–comes in many varieties, all of which benefit from tantra teaching. Tantra teaches primary partners how to stay connected while loving others in closed-circle, polygynous (multiple women with a man), polyandrous (more than one man with a woman) families, triads, intimate networks, open marriages, group marriage, communities.
If you already enjoy overflowing love with someone, you can expand your love, sex and joy to others in tantric embrace. If you’re single, practice tantra with multiple lovers and you get love, sex and intimacy as well as the freedom and variety. Different parts of you come out with each lover, so you heal and grow faster.
If you’re in a couple and choose to swing, you and your partner agree to guidelines about sexual acts and health precautions. You may decide to consult about potential lovers before you go to a date, party, club or “Lifestyle” convention, where you’ll put your ideas into play. You bring your sexuality, heightened by others during the date or party, to your partner. You discuss the emotions your felt and use any jealous feelings that arose to reprogram the self put-downs that cause your jealousy. You extend empathy to your partner till you learn to enjoy her sexual delight with others.
You may well, as you create erotic opportunities with other couples, singles or groups, make lifelong friends You and they and their lovers and their lovers become an intimate network
Tantra goes particularly well with bisexuality. Same-sex loving and sex balances your inner and outer male and female, yin and yang for under societal taboos, we are, like the Bonobos–our closest genetic cousins–bisexual.
* See “TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS” by Dr. Lessin and Janet Kira Lessin
TANTRA for ALL CHAKRAS guides you through experiences that help you:
* Love each other more and better
* Open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other
* Share your diverse inner-voices
* Learn what hurts and scres your Inner Kids
* Discern when to lower your subself shields
* Share vulnerability and connect with each other
* Synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you
* Refine how you relate
* Heal each other’s hearts
* Encourage female ejaculation
* Master male ejaculatory control
To teach those who love you how to do it best, get
TEACH TANTRA, a manual for you to experience advanced tantra and teach it to others.
You learn to teach lovers and seekers how to:
* Master advanced tantra techniques
* Open all energy vortexes (chakras) to each other
* Refine relations
* Encourage female ejaculation and master male ejaculatory control
* Find meaning and purpose in relationships and life
* Reprogram parent imprints that diminish sex and love * Get satisfaction and sustain sex
* Mutually make more in sexual loving
* Delve dreams and pastlives
* Worship women and gratify guys
THE LESSINS: HOLISTIC-LOVING GUIDES
SASHA ALEX LESSIN, PH.D. (U.C.L.A.) taught Sex Education at the University of Hawaii School of Medicine, Leeward Community College and the Professional School for Psychological Studies. He served as Director of Counseling at the Waikiki Drug Center and has counseled relationships, guided spiritual journeywork and taught tantra for over forty years.
JANET KIRA LESSIN, naturally tantric, joined Sasha as his co-teacher and presenter and together they developed, All-Chakra Tantra as Janet worked through her sexual abuse traumas and learned how to facilitate others’ reprogramming.
The LESSINS taught Tantra at Maui Community College, World Polyamory Association, World Tantra Association conferences, the School of Tantra on Maui and The Phoenix Goddess Temple.
They’ve appeared on numerous TV shows and on hundreds of radio shows and have written 10 books and counting.
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