From TEACH TANTRA* by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D., Pastlife and Janet Kira Lessin, CEO, Aquarian Media
THE SPIRITS OF DECEASED PETS WHO LOVED YOU AWAIT YOU IN A LIFE BETWEEN LIVES
This Do-It-Yourself exercise is best done with a friend who reads the cues to you and listens without comment as you respond to each cue. Alternatively, just read the directions and, in a quiet, uninterrupted space, speak aloud, first as you imagine your own death, then role-play an encounter in the interlife with your departed pet’s spirit.
First you fantasize entering the Interlife after you die, then you encounter your pet in the Interlife, and communicate with each other before you and your pet enter a new lives.
[WHEN YOU DIE]
Imagine you–but no one else–dying.
DESCRIBE YOUR DEATH scene.
What leads up to your death?
Relate your death in the present tense, as though it happens as you speak. ***
Who’s present when you die? ***
Describe the situation. ***
Say “goodbye” to each of the people you loved. ***
Tell each of them any unfinished FEELINGS you have for each of them. ***
Tell them WITHHOLDS–secrets, desires you held back. ***
Say what you APPRECIATE, your loving feelings and physical impulses toward them. ***
What CONCLUSIONS do you draw from this life? ***
What secret thoughts do you take to your death? ***
Say WHAT YOU FAILED AT in this life. ***
Relate your SUCCESSES in this life. ***
What grateful, forgiving and loving thoughts do you die with? ***
What LAST WORDS do you say aloud? ***
How do you feel emotionally about your life as you leave it? ***
What do you REGRET? ***
If you have spirits of babies in you, talk to each of them aloud. ***
Tell them you release their spirits. ***
Express emotions you stored in injured, abused or neglected parts of your BODY, so you don’t take them to future embodiments. ***
If a person hurt you, express your feelings to him or her. ***
If you injured or abused yourself, express the emotions of your hurt parts. ***
What last things do you you see? ***
What do you hear last? ***
What last things do you you touch, smell and taste. ***
Move and make sounds as you die. Feel life ebb from you.
ATTEND YOUR FUNERAL [ Adapted from Huxley, L. You Are Not The Target NY: Avon, 1963.]
Imagine your body in a coffin, urn, or funereal canoe.
Go to your funeral. See the people there.
Who surprises you when they attend? ***
At the funeral is SOMEONE GLAD YOU’RE DEAD? ***
Who there wishes he or she died instead of you? ***
See flowers people sent. Smell each bouquet separately. ***
What music plays at your funeral? ***
The people, one by one, view your remains.
The first to step up: someone YOU LOVED when you lived. Say this person’s name. *** [Jot the person’s name so you can fill it in for the next cue.]
[Loved person’s name] approaches your coffin (or urn), you know what she (or he) feels and thinks. ***
Roleplay [Loved person’s name]. As [Loved person’s name], voice your feelings and thoughts toward [Partner’s name]***
Dead now, you can’t reply to [Loved person’s name]. If you could, what would you say and how would you touch [Loved person’s name]? ***
[Loved person’s name] moves on.
Someone WHO LOVED YOU comes up to you. This person when you lived, loved you lots. Enact [loved person’s name]. As [Loved person’s name] view and express your thoughts and feelings toward [Partner’s name] in the coffin. ***
If you still lived and COULD respond to [Loved person’s name] (dead now, you can’t) how would you move toward her/him? ***
[Loved person’s name] moves on.
Next SOMEONE FOUND DIFFICULT views your remains. Say her/his name and what troubled you about her/him? ***
[Note [Difficult person’s name]
Enact [Difficult person’s name]. Say what you think as you look at [Partner’s name]’s remains. ***
Again identify with yourself, dead in your coffin again. Imagine you speak [Difficult person’s name]. ***
Gesture to her/him as you might if you still lived. ***
[Encounter EACH person who impacted her or him.]
Recall a DECISION you pondered. What should you have decided? ***
Your EULOGY is about to begin. Notice who rises to speak, to eulogize you? *** What does your Eulogizer say? *** How do you feel about the eulogy? ***
Do you agree with what the eulogizer says? Establish a dialogue between you and your eulogizer; shift roles—alternate roleplaying Eulogizer and Pet as you debate the content of the Eulogizer’s remarks about you. ***
Act-out YOUR OWN EULOGIZER. Correct what your Eulogizer said. ***
In your own words, summarize, moralize and review your life and its meaning. Tell the people at your funeral about you and your mistakes, suffering, love and longings. ***
People lower your coffin into the earth. Separate from the world of the embodied.
SEPARATE FROM YOUR BODY and suffering. Feel relief and peace.
FROM ABOVE, SEE the people. Try, but fail to talk to and touch them. Realize you died.
What does your EPITAPH say? *** [Write it]
Whoosh down a tunnel, then up for the light. Spirits of departed loved ones extend their HANDS and GUIDE you. Your deceased Pets greet you the way they did when they lived. Say their names aloud. ***
Your guides take you to the Karmic Guide who shows you the MAIN EVENTS OF YOUR LIFE AND THEIR
CONSEQUENCES FOR OTHERS. Say what you see and express how you feel. ***
Witness and talk about LOVE YOU GAVE AND LOVE YOU GOT. ***
WHAT DID YOU NEED TO LEARN from your life? ***
What did you need to experience? ***
At what, if any, point, did things go wrong? ***
WHAT WOULD YOU DO DIFFERENTLY, if you got a re-run? ***
WHAT DID YOU CONTRIBUTE to humanity, to the consciousness of the cosmos. ***
Find in the spirit world, one-by-one, the SPIRITS OF THOSE YOU HURT, BETRAYED OR ABANDONED.
What do you have to say to each of them? ***
Identify with each. As each,reply and dialogue. ***
If you failed this life, commune with those you let down. Let them forgive and comfort you. What do they say? ***
Find spirits of people who hurt, betrayed or abandoned you. Let each of them, in turn, use your voice and talk to you. ***
In the spirit world too, what do you have to say to each of them? ***
FORGIVE YOURSELF. ***
Dialogue aloud with any DISEMBODIED SPIRITS ATTACHED TO YOU from the life you just lived.
Tell them to find their loved ones here in the light and to leave you now.
What tasks need you finish? ***
Hear your Karmic Guides assign you tasks to BALANCE YOUR KARMA. You can create karmic balance with kindness you give to people other than those you hurt or failed.
What are your karma-balancing tasks? ***
[SPEAK WITH A DEPARTED BELOVED PETS]
Keep your eyes closed. REMEMBER PETS WHO DIED. SAY THEIR NAMES. ***
IMAGINE __ [pet’s name] HEARS YOU NOW.
TELL — [pet’s name] WHAT YOU LEFT UNSAID. ***
PRETEND YOU ARE _ [pet’s name]. REPLY AS [PET’S NAME], THE PERSON WHO ROLEPLAYED DYING IN ORDER TO CONTACT YOUR SPIRIT AGAIN. ***
AS — [pet’s name], STATE ANY RESENTMENTS YOU HAD FOR ME BEFORE OR AFTER YOU DIED. ***
TELL ME _ [pet’s name] WHAT YOU APPRECIATE ABOUT ME FROM LIFE OR AFTER YOU DIED. ***
STOP ROLEPLAYING — [pet’s name]. HAVE A DIALOGUE–SWITCH BACK AND FORTH ROLE-PLAYING YOU AND [pet’s name]. ***
IF YOU’D LIKE __ [pet’s name] TO FORGIVE YOU FOR ANYTHING, ASK NOW. ***
BE _ [pet’s name] AND FORGIVE. ***
BE YOU AGAIN. IF YOU HELD RESENTMENTS AGAINST _ [pet’s name] GESTURE FORGIVENESS AND FORGIVE _ [pet’s name] ALOUD. [Example: “I forgive you for wrecking my screen door.”] ***
Imagine — [pet’s name] hears you now.
Tell _ [pet’s name] WHAT YOU LEFT UNSAID. ***
Pretend YOU ARE _ [pet’s name]. REPLY as [pet’s name], the person who died. ***
As _ [pet’s name], state any RESENTMENTS you had for me before or after you died. ***
Tell me, — [pet’s name] what you APPRECIATE about me from life or after you died. ***
Stop roleplaying _ [pet’s name].
Have a dialogue–switch back and forth role-playing you and _ [pet’s name]. ***
If you’d like _ [pet’s name] to forgive you for anything, ask now. ***
Be– [pet’s name] and forgive. ***
Be you again. If there’s something you held against [pet’s name] make a gesture of forgiveness and forgive — [pet’s name] aloud. ***
Stop roleplaying _ [Pet’s name]. Have a dialogue–switch back and forth role-playing you and [Pet’s name]. ***
If you’d like __ [Pet’s name] to forgive you for anything, ask now. ***
Be _ [Pet’s name] and forgive. ***
Be you again. If you held resentments against _ [Pet’s name] make a gesture of forgiveness and forgive _ [Pet’s name] aloud. ***
Wiggle your toes, swallow 3 times, turn your head from side to side and notice where your body touches your seat. But keep your eyes closed.
What did you learn? ***
In this easy-to-read, fully-illustrated manual, you learn to teach lovers and seekers how to:
* Master advanced tantra techniques
* Open all energy vortexes (chakras) to each other
* Refine relations
* Encourage female ejaculation and master male ejaculatory control
* Find meaning and purpose in relationships and life
* Reprogram parent imprints that diminish sex and love * Get satisfaction and sustain sex
* Mutually make more in sexualloving
* Delve dreams and pastlives
* Worship women and gratify guys
Also by the Lessins:
ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA: SYNERGIZED SACRED & PSYCHOLOGICAL EXERCISES FOR INNER CHILDREN, VOLUPTUARIES, HEROS, ROMANTICS, VISIONARIES, & SAGES
TANTRA for ALL CHAKRAS guides you through experiences that help you:
* Love each other more and better
* Open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other
* Share your diverse inner-voices
* Learn what hurts and scares your Inner Kids
* Discern when to lower your subself shields
* Share vulnerability and connect with each other
* Synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you
* Refine how you relate
* Heal each other’s hearts
* Encourage female ejaculation
* Master male ejaculatory control
THE LESSINS: HOLISTIC-LOVING GUIDES
SASHA ALEX LESSIN, PH.D. (U.C.L.A.) taught Sex Education in the University of Hawaii School of Medicine, Leeward Community College and the Professional School for Psychological Studies. He served as Director of Counseling at the Waikiki Drug Center and has counseled relationships, guided spiritual journeywork and taught tantra for over fifty years.
JANET KIRA LESSIN, naturally tantric, joined Sasha as his co-teacher and presenter and together they developed, All-Chakra Tantra as Janet worked through her sexual abuse traumas and learned how to facilitate others’ reprogramming.
The LESSINS taught Tantra at Maui Community College, World Polyamory Association, World Tantra Association conferences, the School of Tantra on Maui and The Phoenix Goddess Temple.
They’ve appeared on numerous TV shows and on hundreds of radio shows and have written 10 books and counting.
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