Roleplay: Show others how you see them; see how they see you

“O, wad some Power the giftie gie us To see oursels as others see us! It wad frae monie a blunder free us, An’ foolish notion.” ― Robert Burns From TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS* by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D. & Janet Kira Lessin ROLEPLAY Roleplay; roleplay means portray; you enact me. I pretend I’m you. We’ll take …

LISTEN WITH LOVE: VALIDATE, FEEL EACH OTHER

From TEACH TANTRA* by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D. & Janet Kira Lessin www.amazon.com/Teach-Tantra-Teacher-Manual-Chakras/dp/… Reserve several 90-minute  intervals of uninterrupted privacy in person, via media or phone to take turns facilitating and responding to friends, significant others and lovers. As we take turns guiding each other through the exercise below; we learn what we can safely …

Quarantine Fun (Adults) COMMUNICATE AUTHENTICALLY

From TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS* by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D. and Janet Kira Lessin Get the most out of the Corona Virus quarantine at home; create a space private from children, hold hands, look in each other’s eyes, breathe together, and commit to hear one another with compassion.  Imagine a sympathetic dragon above and behind you …

REPROGRAM PARENTAL IMPRINTS

by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D. (UCLA), M.A., (Counseling Psychology, University for Humanistic Studies) From TEACH TANTRA * by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D. (Dean, School of Counseling) and Janet Kira Lessin (CEO, Aquarian Media) Aloha, I’m Dr. Sasha Lessin.  I want you to free yourself from automatically reacting to your current situations from automatic programs you got when, …

STILL TANTRIC* AFTER ALL THESE YEARS: How to Make Love Last

By Janet Kira Lessin in TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS * I started living September 27, 1997 when I began an all-chakra tantric relationship. That was the day I moved in with Sasha, who became my husband. He literally saved my life. I’d met him three weeks earlier when I’d given up on life. Both my …

Fathom Finitude & Deal with Death–GRACE GROWS IN DEATH’S JAWS—Do-it-Yourself Experientials on NEGATION & FINITUDE

USE LIMITS TO MAKE LIFE MEANINGFUL; REFLECT ON NEGATION, FINITUDE, DEATH           Accept that your physical body will die and you move to live with full vitality, individuality and commitment.  Realize you and others will die prompts you to make authentic, intimate, feelingful, expressive contact.  Knowing you’ll die gives you timetables for the tasks you’ve …

CENTER YOURSELVES * & ENJOY ALL YOUR ENERGIES; TEACH LOVERS HOW–Do-It-Yourself or Do-It-with-Partners Experiential too

You CENTER yourself when you hold tension between two or more subselves, voice you can hear in your mind’s ear that opposed one another in your head. Centered, you embrace the opposed voices and respond to their needs.  You recognize, embrace and coordinate your protective, vulnerable, instinctual and spiritual subs.  You center better among you …

GESTALT: NEGATE NEUROSIS & EXPLORE EXPERIENTIALS

From TEACH TANTRA* by Sasha Alex Lessin, Dean School of  Counseling & Janet Kira Lessin, CEO, Aquarian Radio Aloha, I’m Sasha Lessin. I live from a very here-and-now philosophy psychotherapists call  “gestalt therapy.”  I don’t like the word “therapy” because it implies you’re sick.  You’re not.  I just call this philosophy “gestalt” in the sense …

CLEAR CHAKRAS, CULTIVATE KUNDALINI: Do- It-Yourself Cues to Picture & Empower Planetary Peace

By Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D. (Anthropology, UCLA) Human “life begins with spiral patterns that swirl in vortex-like patterns that form a snake-like channel of energy known as KUNDALINI, which means serpent.  Kundalini winds around the spinal column [through] energy centers known as CHAKRAS. In a typical human, kundalini energy is always present but usually blocked.  …

RESOLUTIONS FOR THIS YEAR & THE REST OF YOUR LIFE

by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Counseling Review the steps on your life’s path.  See, and draw life maps that show where you’ve been, what you learned and where you head. Discover and reinforce the warp, woof and golden threads of your life fabric.  Re-assess what you declined and maybe bring it into …